SOI (Social in Real Life) was built for one purpose: to help people make meaningful friendships — without the pressure of dating apps, and without the toxicity of anonymous online spaces.
We are proudly anti-dating. SOI is not a place for flirting, pickup lines, or short-term swiping. We're here to help you meet good people, build trust, and form real-world connections based on shared experiences and values.
We review all reports seriously. Any violation of our community rules — including harassment, manipulation, or dishonesty — may result in account suspension or removal. SOI is here to be a safe haven, and we intend to protect that mission.
If you’re using SOI, you’re part of something special — a global movement to bring friendship back into focus. We invite you to help shape this space with us.
Have ideas to improve our trust policies? Send us a message.